If sex with a partner no longer seems exciting to you, try playing.
What are role playing games
Generally speaking, sexual role play is an activity in which two or more people take on specific roles and act out scenarios based on their sexual fantasies.
However, the word “scenario” should not be taken literally. In some cases, the game can be worked out in advance in detail. In others, it’s just improvisation within the framework of a given role.
The key word here is fantasy.
Therefore, some games may contain special costumes and sexual paraphernalia, while others may not. That is, changing the habitual behavior of partners during sex can already be considered a game. So this includes experiments with more aggressive behavior, and even the so-called dirty talk.
Why Role Play
The first and most obvious reason is that the game brings variety to the sex life. Yes, at first passions boil and the mere presence of a partner awakens a burning desire. However, often over time, the intensity subsides and this beloved, but already familiar creature ceases to cause a storm of feelings. Or sex becomes too repetitive and uninteresting. This is where games come to the rescue.
In some of them, the partners seem to return to the beginning of the relationship. In this case, they usually reenact the stage of seduction. In others, they are aimed at getting new sensations. Here, sex toys or unusual practices can come into play, such as bandaging or dominance and submission.
Another advantage is more of a psychological property. The point is that during the game, partners can realize their long-standing sexual fantasies. This is a kind of release from obsessions. The result is liberation, relief and, of course, pleasure.
Well, the last important bonus is the strengthening of relationships. Firstly, because the realization of secret desires, as a rule, becomes the secret of a couple. And secrets give a sense of community. Secondly, by playing with a partner, a person overcomes the temptation to get what they want on the side. In his bed is already a stranger, and a longtime object of passion, and anyone else. Of course, with the proviso that this “anyone” is ready for the proposed experiments.
What Role Playing Games Can You Try?
This scenario is especially suited to those who don’t mind trying to have sex with a stranger, but aren’t willing to sacrifice relationships or safety. You can try on a new look, loosen up and experiment. You can play at home, but even more interesting – outside. For example, “accidentally” meet on the street and continue the meeting in a hotel room that is booked in advance.
This relatively innocent erotic performance could well be considered a role-playing game. Choose the right outfit and try to get used to the role. By the way, not only a girl can dance.
3. Sex with a man from the service industry
This story has been played out a million times in various adult films. A negligent maid missed a spot on the mirror, and a plumber is very hot with a wrench? But there are masseurs, fitness trainers, couriers, waiters and many others. Here is the script ready.
4. Sex with someone in power
If you were turned on by a physical education teacher in your school years or you know exactly how Lyudmila Prokofievna should have punished Novoseltsev for a bad report, then this is for you. You can play a queen and a commoner, Monica Lewinsky in the oval office, anyone. Choose according to your taste.
The extreme version of sex with someone in a position of power is rape. Many people fantasize about such a scenario , but this does not mean that they want to turn it into reality with a criminal. But in bed you can imagine anything.
6. Mistress / master and slave
Sex with elements of BDSM can enrich new experiences. But in this case, special attention must be paid to security, even if we are talking about light binding.
7. Role reversal
If your pair has a clear division into a leader and a follower, you can change the established order of things for the sake of experiment. A bandage over the eyes and/or handcuffs on the hands will help to overcome the embarrassment.
A role-playing game from the forest near Moscow can be transferred to your bed: hobbits, magicians and Muggles, a handsome prince, a light elf or a captain from a ship bound for Alpha Centauri. The amount of props will depend only on your imagination. And for anime lovers, there are even tails that are attached to the butt plug. You definitely won’t be bored.
9. Shooting a movie
Try to embody the script of your favorite movie (not necessarily porn: erotic scenes from any movie will do) or capture your talents on camera. Do not chase acrobatic stunts. The main thing is to give yourself completely. And remember about security: such videos should not fall into the wrong hands.
What you need to do to enjoy the role-playing game
Remember about safety precautions and follow simple rules.
1. Make sure you agree
Of course, any sex should be based on mutual consent. But it has a special meaning when it comes to unusual practices.
Never force your partner to do activities that he does not like. Even if you really want to. Even if you are sure that in the end it will be great.
And do not, out of solidarity, politeness or pity, agree to an offer that you do not like. It is better to look for other points of intersection or even another partner than to risk mental or physical health.
2. Build the game on trust
Another basic point that concerns sex in general and role-playing games in particular. To minimize negative consequences, you must be confident in your partner. Otherwise, a variety of consequences are possible: from the fact that someone tells others about your innermost desires, and ending with the infliction of mental and physical harm.
3. Discuss the rules
Improvisation is improvisation, but it is better to discuss the conditions in advance. At least the moment that there are no conditions. When it comes to BDSM practices, you always need to set boundaries and choose a stop word and a stop gesture.
4. Make sure you have a basic knowledge of anatomy
This is especially important if we are again talking about BDSM: there are separate areas of the body that are better not to use or use with extreme caution. For example, you can not affect the neck and large joints. And it is also necessary to leave a place under the ropes and not to leave a bound person unattended.
5. Learn the principles and rules for using assistive devices
If you use sex toys or other props (such as real handcuffs) to play, find out and test how they work in advance. Otherwise, there is a risk of spoiling the device, mood or facing worse problems.